narrative TOM

0. Purpose of TOM

Predictor of others behviour

Explanation of own behaviour

Leading to enhanced social interaction

A. year 1
(Stage for verbalized understanding)

turn taking

upset when still face

End: of first year

People as intentional

desires

feelings

Next step

joint attention

social referencing

gestrues

Language

B. year 2-3

clearer grasp

emotions / desires

emphaty

... leading to realize others have differnt mental states

language to talk about mental state increases (s. also mothers mind mindedness)

I want to see beaver

I like carrot

I want carrots

End: of year 2-3

simplistic desire TOM

People always behaver to satisfy desires

(false) beliefs, other goals play no role

C. 3-4

Belief- desire TOM

efforts of influencing others beliefs increase

understanding false believe

More 4 then 3 year olds can.

End:

beliefs are interpretations and need not be real but hypothetical (abilty of holding two possibilities in mind - less egocentric)

More secure between 4-6

after 6 the belief reality distinction becomes better

Leads to better bullying and persuation

D. 7 +

Second order false belief:

Somebody holds a belief (first order)
"A. I believe B. Mary wants to go swimming"

... about someone else
"C. Mary thinks that Anne alos might want to go swimming"

Why somebody else has arrived at a believe

leads to better understanding of other's perspectives

and that these can be wrong

Belief-desire reasoning

Good predictor of socal skills

joint plannig

pretend play

Factors influencing TOM

language skills

Reflecting on thought possilbe by language

cultures lacking mental state words are worse

chinese

containing words such as a "false believe" do better

Subtopic

social factors

Moms talk about mind mindedness

enahance tom

siblings

Mary

When Sally was was 4 uncle Piaget wanted her to hide a dolls from the the policemen but he saw that she was too occupied. But his huge uncle said he could help with at least 90% from 3-5. Sally understood without explanation.

Then he had huge idea and went to the woods The chimps could help solve the problem. But meeting Dennet the philosoper, he just laughed.
Dennet took the subway and trasferred to Maxi a toy store where 3y old children stood and whimmerd because only half of 4y olds were allowed whil the 6 y could could walk in to the club and listen to pirner the guitarrist.

Dennet was hungry so he went to the avis gas station. They were out of food and told him in was the same in the BAKArei.

There he met GOPNIK and she offered him some smarties.
As he saw there were pencils incide he said: Doom, I knew it.
But the BAKArei owner said: "There is a second delivery" at 7. I can tell a joke from a lie thought Gopnik but I want to believe him.

We need different method said Dennet. How about staying in the environment obseving if they have good intentions. Well-man I said to Dennet: We could listen their to their talk at 3 and comare it with their talk at 5 to see if their desire canges with time. But Gopnik was too hungry and could only think about food: I allwawys liked broccoli, at 14 or at 18.

Look, said Dennett do you recognize this face that is Franz. Very charming said Gopnik. They jointly attended to a man talking and making motorcyle noises.
Did you know when Melzoff was 18 he he could not even imitate a machine?

So what said Dennett, and made a proposal to go drink an asti and eat a curry. That was a good proposal but suttonly a big bully came around the corner and they ran.

While drinking the asti, the thought of where they of italy, the language and the manby siblings italiens have. And that aults let them live there til they are much older, to prevent them to become victims of the mafia. When they saw a Wolf at the corner they signed to each other that it's better to leave.