Me

Tensions:Morals on LoyaltyOriginally had all people weren't equal, but discussed and removedTrying to learn lesson from every experienceViews on love Because he did not have clear standpoints on certain topics I had tensions with not knowingConnections:Formal educationSome Buddhist beliefs/practicesUniverse created us (Both seem to have same creation ideas)Genuine connections (Same values/No cognitive disconnect=Same friends -> cumulative case)Both emphasize self awareness as an important value in our livesA major connection we found was the we both believe "Everyone is on a different journey"Ambivalences:What happens after you dieAnything can be addictingNeeds (he lives more of a simple lifestyle)Standpoint on GodHe was indifferent on Politics which is something we discussed thoroughly as well.

Experiences

Camping with family

Hunting

Many family deaths

I lost my Dad when I was 15. He committed suicide. I also lost my grandfather, grandmother, family friend, cousin, and two emotional support dogs within a span of four years. This has taught me how I deal with grief and several strong views on death.

Had expectations at a high level

My family always pushed me to achieve high levels of excellence in school, sports, and life in general.

Always pushed in academics

Spending time with best friend

Being in girlscouts

Taught me life lessons

Childhood

Father was abusive and an alcoholic

Committed suicide

Loved my dad very much/ Daddy's girl

Very smart good person when he was sober

Prescription drug addiction

Grew up with a sister three years younger

Happiest memory: When my sister was born

Has life threatening vascular malformation

Shared a room for over a decade

Would always fight

Best friend as a child

Earliest memory was mom putting me to bed singing "you are my sunshine"
singing

Got along well with mom at first but in process of repairing our relationship

Co-dependency, abusive relationship with mom mental health issues throughout family

PLay flute, piano and used to sing

Raised with neighborhood boys

Love tom boy activities

Played soccer for 10+ years

Won many accomplishments

Started as a middle class family slowly lost money

Been cheated on, have cheated

Was bullied throughout my schooling

Had a hard time making genuine friends

Emotions

Happy/excited

Passionate

Jealous

Love

Hate

Nostalgic (One of my favorite emotions + and -)

Sadness/Anger

Annoyance

Grief

Have anxiety and depression

What do I need

Basic necessities

Sense of belonging

Physical affection

Sense of security

Challenge (flow)

Consistency

Organization

Control

Need to be able to socialize and also have a calm space to go to

Have goals

I feel like I am failing if I am not challenging myself in some way

Schedule

Maslow's hierarchy of needs

Values

Practices

Drink a lot of coffee

Homework

Don't meticulously study

Prefer discussion based classes

Time

Spending time with boyfriend

Education full time student

Psychology major love to analyze

Studying

College Athletics 10+ hours a week

Watch TV

Work part time job

Friends

Appts

Movies

Family

Driving

Social media

Self talk

If you can't change it, don't worry about it

The more energy you put into it, the more you fuel the problem

Makes lists in brain of what to do

It;s only material, it can be replaced and it does not mean anything in the long run

When things break

Breathing exercises when too anxious

Not very good with money

Escapism

Projects

Open my own psychology practice

Speak about mental illness stigmas

Travel

Write a book

Be financially stable

Have a family of my own

Get my P.H.D

Own my own home

Intern with a counseling company

Learn Spanish

Get better at piano

Always keep bettering myself

Have a healthy marriage

Thoughts

Past, present, future

What I have to do

Day dream

Worry about other people

What could go wrong

Institutions

Education

Do not believe in standarized tests

Private education

Uniforms

Abstract topics/Real life problems

Marriage

All types of marriage are acceptable, but i prefer monogamy

Too jealous to be in a polygamous relationship

Medicine

Western medicine when needed

Prefer natural options

Could be more advanced

Democracy

Most practical system

Communism is good in theory but not in practice

Beliefs

Equality

Pro gender equality

Times are changing and traditional gender roles should change as well

Who am I to judge what race, sex, religion, or sexuality is the best

Higher Power

Having a soul

I don't believe in sin, rather morality

Ghosts

Not able to pass over for some reason in their previous life

Afterlife

Don't believe in hell

Reincarnation

Put onto this earth to learn a lesson to teach society

Until soul has enlightenment

Everything has a consequence/ yin yang

Energy is neither created nor destroyed

There is positive and negative energy

Dont necessarily believe in god but higher unexplained power

Free will

Tensions:Morals on LoyaltyOriginally had all people were equal, but discussed and removedTrying to learn lesson from every experienceViews on loveBecause he did not have clear standpoints on certain topics I had tensions with not knowingConnections:Formal educationSome Buddhist beliefs/practicesUniverse created us (Both seem to have same creation ideas)Same value and standards for friends (No cognitive disconnect/ Same values=Same friends-> Cumulative case)Ambivalences:What happens after you dieAnything can be addictingNeeds (he lives more of a simple lifestyle)Standpoint on GodHe was indifferent on Politics which is something we discussed thrououghly as well.

There are always two sides to a story

Don't assume what you don't know

Pros and cons to everything

Aliens are possible

Some much unknown in the Galaxy

The end of the world (Eventually)

I believe the world will end eventually by global warming, human warfare, or other human caused impacts.

Global Warming, nuclear bombing, World war

Formal education is important
but so is non-formal education

Don't believe in standardized testing

Pro-Choice

It would be irresponsible to bring a family into one that cannot afford to keep it

Rape cases

Women should be allowed to make choices concerning their bodies

You can believe whatever you want, but that doesn't make it right

Morality

Right

Selflessness

Being polite

Respect

Helping even when it doesn't benefit you

Tensions:Morals on LoyaltyOriginally had all people weren't equal, but discussed and removedTrying to learn lesson from every experienceViews on loveBecause he did not have clear standpoints on certain topics I had tensions with not knowingConnections:Formal educationSome Buddhist beliefs/practicesUniverse created us (Both seem to have same creation ideas)Genuine connections (Same values/No cognitive disconnect=Same friends -> cumulative case)Both emphasize self awareness as an important value in our livesA major connection we found was the we both believe "Everyone is on a different journey"Ambivalences:What happens after you dieAnything can be addictingNeeds (he lives more of a simple lifestyle)Standpoint on GodHe was indifferent on Politics which is something we discussed thoroughly as well.

Wrong

Rape

Stealing

Murder

Acceptable

Lying (Context)

Self defense

Hunting

Tensions:Morals on LoyaltyOriginally had all people were equal, but discussed and removedTrying to learn lesson from every experienceViews on love Connections:Formal educationSome Buddhist beliefs/practicesAmbivalences:What happens after you dieAnything can be addictingNeeds (he lives more of a simple lifestyle)

Magic

Use more of brains ability

Difference between illusions and ability

Hate

Self-Pity

Helplessness

Not having a routine

Disorganization

Not knowing

Not having a plan

Discrimination

Wasting my time

Laziness

Sometimes I'm lazy

Entitlement

Love

Quality Time Spent with people

Stimulating conversation

Genuine Connections

Loyalty

Kindness

Understanding/Empathy

Grit

I've had to struggle my whole life,
annoyed when people give up easily

Effort/Hard work

Friends

Have very few but very close friends
and a lot of acquaintances

Being outdoors

Have respect for the power of mother nature

Sunlight

Personal growth

Always take a lesson away from a failure

Your role model should always be a better version of who you are now

Self Awareness

Independence

Forgiveness

Music

Happiness/Laughter

Learning

Free will

James Moore

Beliefs

Everybody has a purpose

Love

Genuine connection

Different forms/magnitudes

Morals

Chivalry

Helping out a friend

Honesty

Tensions:Morals on LoyaltyOriginally had all people were equal, but discussed and removedTrying to learn lesson from every experienceConnections:Formal educationSome Buddhist beliefs/practicesAmbivalences:What happens after you dieAnything can be addicting

Respect

Everyone is equal

Don't know if theres a god

Possibilities of afterlife

Go somewhere else when you die

Don't believe in ghosts

Universe created us

+/- @ jesus

There is a soul

Don't believe in magic

Aliens

Tensions:Morals on LoyaltyOriginally had all people weren't equal, but discussed and removedTrying to learn lesson from every experienceViews on loveBecause he did not have clear standpoints on certain topics I had tensions with not knowingConnections:Formal educationSome Buddhist beliefs/practicesUniverse created us (Both seem to have same creation ideas)Genuine connections (Same values/No cognitive disconnect=Same friends -> cumulative case)Both emphasize self awareness as an important value in our livesAmbivalences:What happens after you dieAnything can be addictingNeeds (he lives more of a simple lifestyle)Standpoint on GodHe was indifferent on Politics which is something we discussed thoroughly as well.

Science is just a way of explaining things to people

Anything can be addicting

Formal Education

Private over Public

Experiences

Childhood

Played sports

Competetive

went to school

Picked on because I was short

Three sisters

Dad was airforce

Was an airplane pilot

Gone for periods of time

Recent

Went to college

Go for the right reasons

Bought a car

Rented a house

Quit long-term job

went to Europe

Visit family in California

Values

Love

Encouragement

Family/Friends

Nature

Water

Happiness

Making people happy

Originality

Teamwork

Being healthy

Music

Self love

Challenge everything

Balance in everything

Patience

Hate

Fear of spiders

Entitlement

Not knowing

Rudeness

Indifferent

Love

Comes and goes

Politics

Do vote still

Money

Need but don't want

Practices

Time

Full time job

Video Games

Friends/ Family

Travel

Drive

Golf

Thoughts

Thinks about future alot

Goals

Certain interactions with people

Self encouragment

Somethings I hate, I sometimes do (hypocrisy)

plays devils advocate

Projects

Financially stable

Family

Make people laugh

Find where to Live

Healthy Lifestyle

Mental and Physical