PARENTING 101
Big Ideas
Preventive Education
Theory of the Theater
Start with the end in mind
Happy & Mature Adults
Education by Example
Struggle to become better
Don't have to be perfect to be good parents
Personalized Education
Each child is different
Little Things
AREAS
Forming the Will
Parental Authority
Educating the Emotions
Leisure & Free Time
Education for Love
Forming in the Faith
Educating in the new technologies
Foundation
Solid MARRIAGE
7 Principles John Gottman
Enhance your love maps
Nurture fondness and admiration
Turn towards each other instead of away
Let your spouse influence you
Solve solvable problems
Overcome gridlock
Create shared meaning
Parents as FIRST educators
United front
Develop a Mission Statement
Don't contradict each other
in front of children
Apologize
FORMING IN THE FAITH
Live the
Days with God
Morning
Gestures
Prayers
Morning Offering
Aspirations
Noon
Angelus or Regina Coeli
During the day
Blessing of meals
Prayer
Rosary
Night
3 Hail Marys
Holy Water
Examination of conscience
Weeks with God
SUNDAY
Mass
Day of rest
Year with God
Liturgical Year
Advent
Christmas
Lent
Easter
Ordinary Time
your Life with God
7 Sacraments
Baptism
Confession
Eucharist
Confirmation
Marriage
Priesthood
Anointing of the sick
From the Human to the DIVINE
Faith is
Looked at
Heard
Sung
Expressed
Touched and listened to
LIVED!
TECHNOLOGY
FORMATION
Well-formed person
Knows self
Knows reality
Knows truth of transformative capacity
Acts with prudence
Overcomes dffficulties
Perfect who our children are
Virtues
Order
Fortitude
Sobriety
Authority
Emotion coaching
Leisure and free time
True Human Sexuality
Modesty
Faith
Freedom
INTERNET
Content
WORLD WIDE WEB
Web 1.0
THE WEB
WEB 2.0 - Digital Socialization
Social Media
Types
TikTok
Snapchat
etc.
Video Sharing Platforms
YouTube, Vimeo, etc.
Multiplatform messsaging apps
Telegram
Signal
Skype
Etc.
Video conferencing
Zoom
Hangouts
Amazon Chime
Etc.
WEB 3.0 - Semantic Intelligence
Search engines
Streaming services
Security
Content-Filtering
Anti-virus
Firewalls
Accessed via
Mobile Devices
Characteristics
Use anytime
Use anywhere
Create Dependencies
Types
Phones
Tablets
Laptops
Video Games
Analysis
Good
Bad
Ugly
EDUCATION FOR LOVE
PHILOSOPHICAL BACKGROUND
SEXUAL EDUCATION
Process
Natural
Individualized
Age Appropriate
Works of Mercy
Connect sexual Info with Love and Faith
VIRTUE
Modesty
What is it?
INTIMACY
3 traits
Reserved areas within ourselves
Be alone with ourselves
Seek for good guidance
How to foster it?
Silence
Self-Knowledge
Intimacy with God
Safeguard Intimacy
Home
Dress
Language
FORMING THE WILL
Educating in Virtue
HOW
Repetition of acts with PURPOSE
Educate in
"DOING"
"THINKING"
KEY VIRTUES
Order
Material order
Chain of Events
Schedule
Fortitude
Effort
Delayed gratification
Counter cultural
Strong Family Culture
Sobriety
Administrators
Go without necessary
No complaining
PARENTAL AUTHORITY
WHAT IS IT?
Protects
Defends
Values
Competence
TYPES
Extremes
Authoritarianism
Permissivness
Authoritative
As Service
HOW?
DO'S
In small & Simple things
Demand MUCH
Few
Important
Recognize good action
Reinforce behavior
Jointly establish rules
Rewards
Punishments
DON'TS
Don't shout
Don't repeat
Give warning
Don't retract punishments
Don't threaten
OBEDIENCE
Motivations
Material
Intellectual
Moral
EDUCATING THE EMOTIONS
Emotional Dispositions
Favor or Hinder
Actions
Virtues
Psycologically Healthy Life
PARENTING STYLES
EMOTION COACHING
GOAL
EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE
REGULATION of emotions
Better social relationships
Peers
Friends
Parents
Adults
Better academically
5 STEPS
Become AWARE of emotion
CONNECT with child
LABEL the emotion
EMPATHY & UNDERSTANDING
Set limits & PROBLEM SOLVE
Emotion DISMISSING
Value POSITIVE emotions
Dismiss NEGATIVE emotions
Use DISTRACTION
Emotion DISAPPROVING
Dismiss NEGATIVE emotions
CRITICIZE emotions
Impatient & PUNISH
LAISSEZ-FAIRE
RECOGNIZE all emotions
ALLOW all emotions
NO problem solving
FREE TIME & LEISURE
Work
What is Leisure
When
Weekends
Vacations
Other free time
How
Encourage activities that enhance
Body
Indoor/Outdoor Play
Unorganized sports
Hikes, camping
Intelligence
Reading
Languages
Music
Hobbies
Museums, concerts
Will
SPIRIT OF SERVICE
Start at home
Visit elederly
Soup kitchen
Help around neighborhood
Homeless
FAMILY CULTURE
Relationships
How we talk to each other
How we handle conflict
Rules & Routines
Rituals & Traditions
Connective Rituals
Glues family together
Sense of belonging & identity
Beliefs & Philosophy of Life
Values & Norms
STRONG PERSONAL CHARACTER
FAMILY CULTURE
Relationships
How we talk to each other
How we handle conflict
Rules & Routines
Rituals & Traditions
Connective Rituals
Glues family together
Sense of belonging & identity