Jerah Quitchon - Welcome to My Life
Instructions
What are all of your stressors, concerns and problems in your life right now?
New Place to stay
Parent's house-I can save much but my fiance don't like living there. :(
I can save my money if I will stay with my parent's house
Cheaper living in house with parents - not need to pay rent, electricity; but fiance not want to live with them.
Rent a Room-less expensive but I am worried of the security.
Iloilo-I don't like living there because of high cost of electricity and prone to flood
Own Place- I want to get my own place but I am not sure about it since
Rent a house-more expensive
Need to move out of her current house at end of October
Family wants Jerah to stay there in Iliolio before she goes to Texas permanently
Wedding
Do you have a budget for the wedding?
What date will the wedding be?
Married first in Texas; only after is Philippines wedding.
for fiance visa
On hold because of the visa
You-know-who is "sensitive"
Crying
Visa
How long will approval for visa take?
2 months? 2 years? 5 years?
What type of Visa?
Fiance visa?
Wedding will take place first in texas if choose fiance visa; wedding in Philippines later (2 week trip only back in Philippines).
Spouse visa?
Spouce visa takes longer than fiance visa?
Jerah doesn't actually want to leave Philippines.
Will Texas be cold?
Jerah hasn't visited all 1000 islands in the Phillipines yet
Not want to leave her family?
Wedding type?
Civil wedding
official wedding?
FOR MY SELF
Never have time for workout, spa and trip out of town :P
Its been 2yrs I didn't buy something for myself like new clothes,bag or sandals :( I have to prioritize the needs of my family first.
Want to continue my business but fiance don't want to :(
Dream/Plan to have a vacation in Hongkong (Disneyland) to meet Ariel the little Mermaid. I'm a frustrated mermaid eversince when I was child. :P
Financial
Bills
Jerah paying for house, electircity, food. Big headache.
Paying sister's travel bill from Iliolio to her current house.
Parents of fiance sending some money
Fiance is limiting the amount of money the parents are sending. Why? Not a good sign.
Fiance is falsely claiming to his parents that they have enough money in the Philippines, but they don't.
This may be a "pride" issue.
Ego issue of the Fiance
Fiance not disclose financial problem to the parents.
Subtopic
Jerah is financially supporting the fiance.
Persuade Fiance to send PayPal funds to Jerah?
Fiance
Jerah is thankful fiance not yelling at her. About financial issues.
Fiance is getting jealous of sir greg. Jerah and Greg spending a lot of time together online. Jealous of Greg, Rose and Jerah joking around.
Fiance is jealous that Jerah is laughing on gotomeeting. Greg makes Jerah laugh. Fiance is jealous of Jerah get happy or laugh. Jerah finds Greg funny. He thinks Jerah is the only one laughing in the team meeting (but Maida was also laughing).
Fiance having trouble withdraw his money from odesk. His mom helping by withdrawing money for him. Maybe going to send money to him to help with expenses.
Church
Jerah wants Fiance to convert to Jerah's religion
Jerah is Seventh Day Adventist
Fiance is raised as a Catholic. But, he's looking for a religion that goes to church each Saturday.
Fiance does not believe in the 2nd coming; He doesn't want to go to Jerah's church because of this reason. Fiance believes in God and Jesus, but not the 2nd coming. "This is always giving us conflicts."
Fiance is refusing to go to church on Saturday with Jerah. He doesn't want to church the full day; too long for hiim.
Jerah sees fiance crying. He doesn't want Jerah to leave him or breaking up with him.
Jerah is thinking of making appointment for fiance with the priest for "why we believe in the 2nd coming."
Jerah is wondering if she needs to marry only a person of same religiion.
What if Jerah wants to go to church on Saturday. But, fiance doesn't want to go. It gets complicated.
Work
Odesk work online is only my way of living (Supost)
Don't like to work on other companies like physical jobs because its more stressful and lots of deductions every payday :p
Rejecting friends offers to work on companies like banks, insurances and hotel.
Need to look for another job on odesk like day shift.
Has other job in odesk but no time to work on it since fiance is asking for my time for him.
Jerah Quiton
FAMILY
Parents separated last year
Mother is taking care of my grandparents so they could also help my mom for the expenses
I need to continue supporting my two little sisters for their school expenses but can't do it for now since the situation of my fiance and I.
My elder sis and I are the one helping the family for the finances
Badly need to buy second hand pc for my sister so she could work also in Odesk
No information from my father, we didn't heard about him since April 2012
Having trouble how to pay my credit card that I used when my father was jobless, in order to provide my family's needs esp food every week. Fiance has no idea about this. :(
Planning to give my younger brother his own small business because I want to help him to have income too.