superiority - What the superior person seeks is in themselves. What the mean person seeks is in others - Confucius
people that use
mean people will use people at work to make themselves look good.
for example, a guy is trying to impress his boss, so he asks a few people to do a few things, and then takes all the credit for it.
or a guy will try to use someone to get something done and then never speak to that person again
These people may do it to feel like they are in control of a person or persons
They may tell people what to do just to show off to someone else to show they control something or someone when they really dont
Some people want or need to feel like they are not useless, and for some reason they take it out on others by bossing them around
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people that do it themselves
a superior person will get things done on there own.
if he ever asks for help he will always return the favor, somehow
this person would rather do it on his own rather then using someone else to get the job done
a superior person also tends to help other people
These people hlep others knowing that in the future they could get help from the person they just helped if they needed it
They may help people and not expect anything in return, they are just being nice and could believe in karma
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When somene uses a person how does it make us feel? how do we look at that person after we have learn that they use people?
Now Think of someone who we look up to, and someone who has helped us out in our lives.
Which one would we rather have as a friend? Most likely the person that would use us would not be around for to long before he found someone else to use.
gov idea
the wise saying "what the superior person seeks is in themselves, and what the mean person seeks is in others" pertains to this.