Helping Relationship

Helping relationship will help individual to motivate themselves and deal with stressful situations. Helping relationship is important interventions for individual’ growth.
Helping relationship will help individual to motivate themselves and deal with stressful situations. Helping relationship is important interventions for individual’ growth.

The Three Natural Tendencies
- Actualizing tendency
- Directional tendency
- Formation tendency

Person-centered theory by Carl Rogers
- Emphasizing understanding and caring rather than diagnosis, advice and persuasion

Helper: The helping person

Helpee: The helped person

Helper as facilitator

The self-concept includes three components :
- Self worth
- Self images
- Ideal Self

Reality therapy by William Glasser

Choices theory by Robert E.Wubbolding

Multicultular Counselling and Therapy theory ( MCT )

Characteristic of mental health people
- Happiness
- Control over behavior
- Appraisal of reality

Mental disorder, mood discoder, major depressive disorder

Attributes of mental health
- Thinking
- Behavior
- Interpersonal Relationship

Different Emphases Between Psychotherapy, Counselling, Interviewing, and Coaching

Coaching : A strong from of encouragement

Psychotherapy : More emphasis on the pathology and accurate diagnosis

Interviewing : More emphasis on gaining information. Information may be use to help other person rather than the client.

Counselling : More emphasis on the therapeutic relationship and overcoming normal development hurdles. Growth-oriented

1. Non-professionals
2. Paraprofessionals
3. Professional

Roadblock to Communication
- Ordering, directing, commanding
-Warning, threatening
- Moralizing, preaching

Perry stages
- The Dualistic or right/wrong stages
- The Multiplistic Stage
- The Relativistic Stages

The Counsellor as a Therspeutuc Person

Personal Characteristics of Effective Helpers
- Identity
- Respect and appreciate themselves
- Open to change

Awareness of self and personal value

Basic Counselling Skills

Attending Behavior

Close and Open-ended questions

Encouragers

Paraphrase

Summary

Reflection

Confrontation

Dasie model

Stage 1: Develop the relationship, identify and clarify problem

Stage 2: Assess problem and redefine in skills terms

Stage 3: State working goals and plan interventions

Stage 4: Intervene to develop self-helping skills

Stage 5: End and consolidate self-helping skills

Factor influencing mental health
- Biological factors
- Psychological factors
- Social factors