love or family
Asian parental expectation
from his morther
his girlfriend's background
her real purpose to get in to this family
stand for many real older asian
want good their lover's background is good
want their children stable in finance
carrer of family
he need to manager his family's business
busy
easy to have affair because he have many outside relationship
social prejudices
different from culture
differences thinking and lifestyle
your private
you can have you own life
no body will judge what you do
private for your little family
your job your money so you can do whatever you life
real love with real people
no money effect in love
same lever lead to equally in love
no taking advantages on each other
far from family
example
they are in NY and his family in Singapore
as many people have trend to move outside the city that they have raised up to other big city
difficulties in take care of other family member