James Moore
Healthy Lifestyle
Mental and Physical
Find where to Live
Make people laugh
Financially stable
plays devils advocate
Somethings I hate, I sometimes do (hypocrisy)
Self encouragment
Certain interactions with people
Goals
Thinks about future alot
Golf
Drive
Friends/ Family
Video Games
Full time job
Indifferent
Money
Need but don't want
Politics
Do vote still
Comes and goes
Rudeness
Fear of spiders
Patience
Balance in everything
Challenge everything
Self love
Being healthy
Teamwork
Originality
Happiness
Making people happy
Nature
Water
Family/Friends
Encouragement
Recent
Visit family in California
went to Europe
Quit long-term job
Rented a house
Bought a car
Went to college
Go for the right reasons
Dad was airforce
Was an airplane pilot
Gone for periods of time
Three sisters
went to school
Picked on because I was short
Played sports
Competetive
Formal Education
Private over Public
Anything can be addicting
Science is just a way of explaining things to people
Aliens
Tensions:
- Morals on Loyalty
- Originally had all people weren't equal, but discussed and removed
- Trying to learn lesson from every experience
- Views on love
- Because he did not have clear standpoints on certain topics I had tensions with not knowing
Connections:
- Formal education
- Some Buddhist beliefs/practices
- Universe created us (Both seem to have same creation ideas)
- Genuine connections (Same values/No cognitive disconnect=Same friends -> cumulative case)
- Both emphasize self awareness as an important value in our lives
Ambivalences:
- What happens after you die
- Anything can be addicting
- Needs (he lives more of a simple lifestyle)
- Standpoint on God
- He was indifferent on Politics which is something we discussed thoroughly as well.
Don't believe in magic
Don't know if theres a god
There is a soul
+/- @ jesus
Universe created us
Don't believe in ghosts
Possibilities of afterlife
Go somewhere else when you die
Everyone is equal
Morals
Honesty
Tensions:
- Morals on Loyalty
- Originally had all people were equal, but discussed and removed
- Trying to learn lesson from every experience
Connections:
- Formal education
- Some Buddhist beliefs/practices
Ambivalences:
- What happens after you die
- Anything can be addicting
Helping out a friend
Chivalry
Different forms/magnitudes
Genuine connection
Everybody has a purpose
Learning
Happiness/Laughter
Music
Forgiveness
Independence
Personal growth
Self Awareness
Your role model should always be a better version of who you are now
Always take a lesson away from a failure
Being outdoors
Sunlight
Have respect for the power of mother nature
Have very few but very close friends
and a lot of acquaintances
Grit
Effort/Hard work
I've had to struggle my whole life,
annoyed when people give up easily
Kindness
Understanding/Empathy
Loyalty
Genuine Connections
Quality Time Spent with people
Stimulating conversation
Entitlement
Laziness
Sometimes I'm lazy
Wasting my time
Discrimination
Not knowing
Not having a plan
Not having a routine
Disorganization
Helplessness
Self-Pity
Me
Tensions:
- Morals on Loyalty
- Originally had all people weren't equal, but discussed and removed
- Trying to learn lesson from every experience
- Views on love
- Because he did not have clear standpoints on certain topics I had tensions with not knowing
Connections:
- Formal education
- Some Buddhist beliefs/practices
- Universe created us (Both seem to have same creation ideas)
- Genuine connections (Same values/No cognitive disconnect=Same friends -> cumulative case)
- Both emphasize self awareness as an important value in our lives
- A major connection we found was the we both believe "Everyone is on a different journey"
Ambivalences:
- What happens after you die
- Anything can be addicting
- Needs (he lives more of a simple lifestyle)
- Standpoint on God
- He was indifferent on Politics which is something we discussed thoroughly as well.
Beliefs
Magic
Difference between illusions and ability
Use more of brains ability
Morality
Acceptable
Tensions:
- Morals on Loyalty
- Originally had all people were equal, but discussed and removed
- Trying to learn lesson from every experience
- Views on love
Connections:
- Formal education
- Some Buddhist beliefs/practices
Ambivalences:
- What happens after you die
- Anything can be addicting
- Needs (he lives more of a simple lifestyle)
Self defense
Lying (Context)
Wrong
Murder
Stealing
Rape
Right
Helping even when it doesn't benefit you
Tensions:
- Morals on Loyalty
- Originally had all people weren't equal, but discussed and removed
- Trying to learn lesson from every experience
- Views on love
- Because he did not have clear standpoints on certain topics I had tensions with not knowing
Connections:
- Formal education
- Some Buddhist beliefs/practices
- Universe created us (Both seem to have same creation ideas)
- Genuine connections (Same values/No cognitive disconnect=Same friends -> cumulative case)
- Both emphasize self awareness as an important value in our lives
- A major connection we found was the we both believe "Everyone is on a different journey"
Ambivalences:
- What happens after you die
- Anything can be addicting
- Needs (he lives more of a simple lifestyle)
- Standpoint on God
- He was indifferent on Politics which is something we discussed thoroughly as well.
Respect
Being polite
Selflessness
You can believe whatever you want, but that doesn't make it right
Pro-Choice
Women should be allowed to make choices concerning their bodies
Rape cases
It would be irresponsible to bring a family into one that cannot afford to keep it
Formal education is important
but so is non-formal education
Don't believe in standardized testing
The end of the world (Eventually)
I believe the world will end eventually by global warming, human warfare, or other human caused impacts.
Global Warming, nuclear bombing, World war
Aliens are possible
Some much unknown in the Galaxy
There are always two sides to a story
Pros and cons to everything
Don't assume what you don't know
Higher Power
Free will
Tensions:
- Morals on Loyalty
- Originally had all people were equal, but discussed and removed
- Trying to learn lesson from every experience
- Views on love
- Because he did not have clear standpoints on certain topics I had tensions with not knowing
Connections:
- Formal education
- Some Buddhist beliefs/practices
- Universe created us (Both seem to have same creation ideas)
- Same value and standards for friends (No cognitive disconnect/ Same values=Same friends-> Cumulative case)
Ambivalences:
- What happens after you die
- Anything can be addicting
- Needs (he lives more of a simple lifestyle)
- Standpoint on God
- He was indifferent on Politics which is something we discussed thrououghly as well.
Dont necessarily believe in god but higher unexplained power
Reincarnation
Energy is neither created nor destroyed
There is positive and negative energy
Until soul has enlightenment
Everything has a consequence/ yin yang
Put onto this earth to learn a lesson to teach society
Afterlife
Don't believe in hell
Ghosts
Not able to pass over for some reason in their previous life
Having a soul
I don't believe in sin, rather morality
Equality
Who am I to judge what race, sex, religion, or sexuality is the best
Pro gender equality
Times are changing and traditional gender roles should change as well
Practices
Institutions
Democracy
Communism is good in theory but not in practice
Most practical system
Medicine
Could be more advanced
Prefer natural options
Western medicine when needed
Marriage
Too jealous to be in a polygamous relationship
All types of marriage are acceptable, but i prefer monogamy
Education
Abstract topics/Real life problems
Uniforms
Private education
Do not believe in standarized tests
Thoughts
What could go wrong
Worry about other people
Day dream
What I have to do
Past, present, future
Projects
Have a healthy marriage
Always keep bettering myself
Get better at piano
Learn Spanish
Intern with a counseling company
Own my own home
Get my P.H.D
Have a family of my own
Be financially stable
Write a book
Travel
Speak about mental illness stigmas
Open my own psychology practice
Not very good with money
Escapism
Self talk
Breathing exercises when too anxious
It;s only material, it can be replaced and it does not mean anything in the long run
When things break
Makes lists in brain of what to do
The more energy you put into it, the more you fuel the problem
If you can't change it, don't worry about it
Time
Social media
Driving
Family
Movies
Appts
Friends
Work part time job
Watch TV
College Athletics 10+ hours a week
Education full time student
Studying
Psychology major love to analyze
Spending time with boyfriend
Homework
Prefer discussion based classes
Don't meticulously study
Drink a lot of coffee
Values
What do I need
Maslow's hierarchy of needs
Schedule
Have goals
I feel like I am failing if I am not challenging myself in some way
Need to be able to socialize and also have a calm space to go to
Control
Organization
Consistency
Challenge (flow)
Sense of security
Physical affection
Sense of belonging
Basic necessities
Emotions
Have anxiety and depression
Grief
Annoyance
Sadness/Anger
Nostalgic (One of my favorite emotions + and -)
Hate
Love
Jealous
Passionate
Happy/excited
Experiences
Had a hard time making genuine friends
Was bullied throughout my schooling
Been cheated on, have cheated
Started as a middle class family slowly lost money
Played soccer for 10+ years
Won many accomplishments
Childhood
Raised with neighborhood boys
Love tom boy activities
PLay flute, piano and used to sing
Earliest memory was mom putting me to bed singing "you are my sunshine"
singing
Got along well with mom at first but in process of repairing our relationship
Co-dependency, abusive relationship with mom mental health issues throughout family
Grew up with a sister three years younger
Happiest memory: When my sister was born
Would always fight
Best friend as a child
Shared a room for over a decade
Has life threatening vascular malformation
Father was abusive and an alcoholic
Prescription drug addiction
Very smart good person when he was sober
Loved my dad very much/ Daddy's girl
Committed suicide
Being in girlscouts
Taught me life lessons
Spending time with best friend
Had expectations at a high level
My family always pushed me to achieve high levels of excellence in school, sports, and life in general.
Always pushed in academics
Many family deaths
I lost my Dad when I was 15. He committed suicide. I also lost my grandfather, grandmother, family friend, cousin, and two emotional support dogs within a span of four years. This has taught me how I deal with grief and several strong views on death.
Camping with family
Hunting
