Be who I want to be

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Money

după Samuel Anderson-McCoy

Othello

după Sidney Awesome

Tempest

după Alain Garrido

Self-Concept Mind Map

după Christopher Budd

Be who I want to be, Build relationships & Help others to grow in happiness

Move closer to people (being more at one)

Creates a family

Prioritize: spouse, children, (extended) family including ancestors, church calling, friends, ward members, enemies, acquaintances, strangers.

Spouse: Anxious concern for her well-being

"True love is not so much a matter of romance as it is a matter of anxious concern for the well-being of one's companion." - Pres. Hinckley

"Pray for the love to make my spouse's joys my own"

For a task, do my part for her, then do mine.

Let her know about decisions I'm making that affect her

Notice what is going on with her and deduce what she needs

Support others in their goals

Own problems together

Share my emotions, hopes, dreams, wishes

Share my intent so that it is not taken as criticism or added burden.

Try out suggestions

Be willing (not stubborn)

Be respectful

Creates property or land

Voice issues

Never insult, degrade (contempt)

No criticism such as "always", "never", attacking

Voice what I'm feeling, why (observations only), & what I need (complaint)

Say 3 positive things for each concern (at least up to 6 positive things)

Respond to concerns

Don't be defensive, instead: "will you please rephrase that? I'm starting to feel defensive."

Move toward their view

"can I share my perspective?"

Listen, putting my heart into it.

"get it" and voice that

What part is reasonable? (focus on that)

Be Accepting

Help them feel safe expressing themselves and doing things

Respect their right to their own feelings, friends, activities, and opinions

Don't judge

Considert a list all of the burdens and responsibilities on their shoulders

God doesn't expect me or anyone else to be perfect. He wants our safe return.

Look at others with an eye of faith

Be giving

Builds heaven on earth

Invite them to tell me about their needs that arise in the future.

Share about myself. Include my testimony and that I am a disciple of Christ.

Help them to know their own worth in God's eyes and that He is asking for their help.

Help them to go to the temple (whether living or dead). Share the gospel (after they feel loved and respected)

Help them be self-reliant, including getting them back on their feet. Includes offering specific ideas that may apply to their needs. Don't try to control them.

Represent Christ. Visit them if sick, Be an example and influence for good. Seek His will.

Frequently show my love and gratitude in meaningful ways

Voice mine and/or God's love for them

Listen and learn about them

Be responsible

Builds a house

Be a responsible Father

Protect them from evil and danger

Do my part to provide their physical, emotional, spiritual, financial needs

Hold them accountable

After school routine

Messes,

snack,

homework,

shower,

chores,

what you want to do

Be a responsible Husband

Do my part to provide her physical, emotional, spiritual, financial needs

Meet my own needs

Be spiritually healthy Have the right perspective

Be happy - it's my choice

Key factors: Be grateful, be positive, be prayerful/meditate, be healthy/exercise, be giving.

Be filled with love

Be positive and optimistic - Hope (no dispair or negativity) (e.g. Have a song memorized to replace negative thoughts with)

Be prayerful

Be clean - repent now

Be forgiving

Be grateful

Be humble

Be physically well

Healthy eating

Drink enough water

Get enough sleep

Be wise

Apply God's teachings.

Ponder what God tells me as a result of studying

Study out of the best resources

Study the Book of Mormon and words of the prophets

Think before I speak or act