The belief that individuals can simply choose or decide their emotions is a common myth that conflicts with human nature. This notion, while seemingly empowering, fails to consider the complexities of human experiences and psychological growth.
"It comes down to what Carl Jung said: I am not what has happened to me as a human being. I am what I choose to become." [50:05]
As valid as it sounds, it leaves us alone in the same state.
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This myth is similar to the Cognitive Bias
When applied to human life, the idea that we just have to "choose" or "decide" to be different will lead into a problem since it is in conflict with human nature.
Circumstances under which the human soul grows/heals