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afraid of intimacy and commitment, but they distrust and lash out emotionally at anyone who tries to get close to them
spend much of their time alone and miserable, or in abusive or dysfunctional relationships
a multitude of other emotional problems in other areas of their life (i.e., substance abuse, depression, etc.)
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very commited
experts at making their way out of any intimate situation
complain about feeling “crowded” or “suffocated” when people try to get close to them
hey always have an exit strategy
lifestyle constructed to avoid commitment or too much intimate contact
Men are more likely than women to be avoidant types
constant reassurance and affection
trouble being alone or single
often give into unhealthy or abusive relationships
trouble trusting people, even if they’re close to them
behaviour can be irrational, random, and overly-emotional
complain that everyone of the opposite sex are cold and heartless
Women are more likely to be anxious types than men
comfortable being alone and independent
correctly prioritize their relationships
draw clear boundaries and stick to them
best romantic partners, family members, and even friends
accepting rejection and moving on despite the pain
loyal and sacrificing when necessary
issue trusting people they’re close to but are trustworthy themselves
50% of the population are secure attachment types
emotional experience as we age
Social contacts limited to a few individuals who are of major importance to us as we grow older
having less time to waste and they are more risk-averse
do not want to involve themselves in painful social interactions
increase their involvement with close friends and family rather than extend their network of social contacts
marriage and parenthood represent major social developments in their life
forties and fifties experience time and family pressures that may limit their social activity
split their time between work, care of parents, other family commitments and wider social activities
reduction in the amount of social activity due to these pressures
learn social roles and behaviour within their family context
family environment provide a ‘safe base’
co-operate with other children (co-operative play)
increasingly independent
friendships based on a sense of mutual trust
2 months - start to smile at human faces
3 months - they will respond when adults talk
5 months - infants can distinguish between familiar and unfamiliar people
Infants make their first relationships as they form an emotional attachment to carers
infants will play alongside other children (parallel play)
older figures to learn fro
older siblings helps excel your social skills
inherit what they believe is “funny and cool” boosting your social skills
always the most selfish
feel they deserve everything
catered and babied throughout their lives
everything handed to as a kid from my siblings and parents
have elder siblings to learn from
parents more lenient and nice towards the young one because they do not commit as many mistakes as their older siblings
Adaptable Independant People pleaser Social Rebellious Feels left out Peacemaker
do not have a drive towards perfectionism
perfectionist, archivers, and reliable people
pressure to be perfect
achieve goals and rewards for great work ethic
Perfectionist Achiever Leader Bossy Responsible Motivated Conscientious Controlling Cautious Reliable
intense ecstasy
feel mild or strong peacefulness
intense terror
mild or strong anxiety
intense loathing
mild or strong dislike
intense fury
feel mild or strong annoyance
intense despair
mild or strong disappointment
