Categories: All - relationships - obedience - values - authority

by Pilar Caranti 3 days ago

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PARENTING 101

Family dynamics play a crucial role in shaping the values, norms, and routines that define how members interact and relate to each other. The ways families handle conflicts, communicate, and partake in rituals and traditions contribute to a sense of belonging and identity.

PARENTING 101

STRONG PERSONAL CHARACTER

PARENTING 101

FREE TIME & LEISURE

How
Encourage activities that enhance

Will

FAMILY CULTURE

Values & Norms

Beliefs & Philosophy of Life

Rituals & Traditions

Connective Rituals

Sense of belonging & identity

Glues family together

Rules & Routines

Relationships

How we handle conflict

How we talk to each other

SPIRIT OF SERVICE

Homeless

Help around neighborhood

Soup kitchen

Visit elederly

Start at home

Intelligence

Museums, concerts

Hobbies

Music

Languages

Reading

Body

Hikes, camping

Unorganized sports

Indoor/Outdoor Play

When
Other free time
Vacations
Weekends
What is Leisure
Work

EDUCATING THE EMOTIONS

PARENTING STYLES
LAISSEZ-FAIRE

NO problem solving

ALLOW all emotions

RECOGNIZE all emotions

Emotion DISAPPROVING

Impatient & PUNISH

CRITICIZE emotions

Emotion DISMISSING

Use DISTRACTION

Dismiss NEGATIVE emotions

Value POSITIVE emotions

EMOTION COACHING

5 STEPS

Set limits & PROBLEM SOLVE

EMPATHY & UNDERSTANDING

LABEL the emotion

CONNECT with child

Become AWARE of emotion

GOAL

EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE

Better academically

Better social relationships

Adults

Parents

Friends

Peers

REGULATION of emotions

Emotional Dispositions
Favor or Hinder

Psycologically Healthy Life

Actions

PARENTAL AUTHORITY

OBEDIENCE
Motivations

Moral

Intellectual

Material

HOW?
DON'TS

Don't threaten

Don't retract punishments

Give warning

Don't repeat

Don't shout

DO'S

Jointly establish rules

Punishments

Rewards

Recognize good action

Reinforce behavior

Demand MUCH

Important

Few

In small & Simple things

TYPES
Authoritative

As Service

Extremes

Permissivness

Authoritarianism

WHAT IS IT?
Competence
Values
Defends
Protects

FORMING THE WILL

Educating in Virtue
KEY VIRTUES

No complaining

Go without necessary

Administrators

Counter cultural

Strong Family Culture

Delayed gratification

Effort

Schedule

Chain of Events

Material order

HOW

Educate in

"THINKING"

"DOING"

Repetition of acts with PURPOSE

EDUCATION FOR LOVE

VIRTUE

Safeguard Intimacy

Language

Dress

Home

How to foster it?

Intimacy with God

Self-Knowledge

Silence

3 traits

Seek for good guidance

Be alone with ourselves

Reserved areas within ourselves

What is it?

INTIMACY

SEXUAL EDUCATION
Connect sexual Info with Love and Faith
Works of Mercy
Age Appropriate
Individualized
Natural
Process
PHILOSOPHICAL BACKGROUND

TECHNOLOGY

INTERNET
Analysis

Ugly

Bad

Good

Accessed via

Mobile Devices

Video Games

Laptops

Tablets

Phones

Characteristics

Create Dependencies

Use anywhere

Use anytime

Security

Firewalls

Anti-virus

Content-Filtering

Content

WORLD WIDE WEB

WEB 3.0 - Semantic Intelligence

Streaming services

Search engines

WEB 2.0 - Digital Socialization

Video conferencing

Amazon Chime

Hangouts

Zoom

Multiplatform messsaging apps

Etc.

Skype

Signal

Telegram

WhatsApp

Video Sharing Platforms

YouTube, Vimeo, etc.

Social Media

Types

etc.

Snapchat

TikTok

Twitter

Instagram

Facebook

Web 1.0

THE WEB

FORMATION
Freedom
Perfect who our children are

Faith

True Human Sexuality

Modesty

Leisure and free time

Emotion coaching

Authority

Virtues

Sobriety

Fortitude

Order

Well-formed person

Overcomes dffficulties

Acts with prudence

Knows truth of transformative capacity

Knows reality

Knows self

FORMING IN THE FAITH

From the Human to the DIVINE
Faith is

LIVED!

Touched and listened to

Expressed

Sung

Heard

Looked at

Live the
your Life with God

7 Sacraments

Anointing of the sick

Priesthood

Marriage

Confirmation

Eucharist

Confession

Baptism

Year with God

Liturgical Year

Ordinary Time

Easter

Lent

Christmas

Advent

Weeks with God

SUNDAY

Day of rest

Mass

Days with God

Night

Examination of conscience

Holy Water

3 Hail Marys

During the day

Rosary

Prayer

Blessing of meals

Noon

Angelus or Regina Coeli

Morning

Prayers

Aspirations

Morning Offering

Gestures

Foundation

Solid MARRIAGE
Parents as FIRST educators

United front

Apologize

Don't contradict each other

in front of children

Develop a Mission Statement

7 Principles John Gottman

Create shared meaning

Overcome gridlock

Solve solvable problems

Let your spouse influence you

Turn towards each other instead of away

Nurture fondness and admiration

Enhance your love maps

AREAS

Educating in the new technologies
Forming in the Faith
Education for Love
Leisure & Free Time
Educating the Emotions
Parental Authority
Forming the Will

Big Ideas

Little Things
Personalized Education
Each child is different
Education by Example
Struggle to become better

Don't have to be perfect to be good parents

Start with the end in mind
Happy & Mature Adults
Preventive Education
Theory of the Theater