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FAMILY CULTURE
Values & Norms
Beliefs & Philosophy of Life
Rituals & Traditions
Connective Rituals
Sense of belonging & identity
Glues family together
Rules & Routines
Relationships
How we handle conflict
How we talk to each other
SPIRIT OF SERVICE
Homeless
Help around neighborhood
Soup kitchen
Visit elederly
Start at home
Intelligence
Museums, concerts
Hobbies
Music
Languages
Reading
Body
Hikes, camping
Unorganized sports
Indoor/Outdoor Play
NO problem solving
ALLOW all emotions
RECOGNIZE all emotions
Impatient & PUNISH
CRITICIZE emotions
Use DISTRACTION
Dismiss NEGATIVE emotions
Value POSITIVE emotions
5 STEPS
Set limits & PROBLEM SOLVE
EMPATHY & UNDERSTANDING
LABEL the emotion
CONNECT with child
Become AWARE of emotion
GOAL
EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE
Better academically
Better social relationships
Adults
Parents
Friends
Peers
REGULATION of emotions
Psycologically Healthy Life
Actions
Moral
Intellectual
Material
Don't threaten
Don't retract punishments
Give warning
Don't repeat
Don't shout
Jointly establish rules
Punishments
Rewards
Recognize good action
Reinforce behavior
Demand MUCH
Important
Few
In small & Simple things
As Service
Permissivness
Authoritarianism
No complaining
Go without necessary
Administrators
Counter cultural
Strong Family Culture
Delayed gratification
Effort
Schedule
Chain of Events
Material order
Educate in
"THINKING"
"DOING"
Repetition of acts with PURPOSE
Safeguard Intimacy
Language
Dress
Home
How to foster it?
Intimacy with God
Self-Knowledge
Silence
3 traits
Seek for good guidance
Be alone with ourselves
Reserved areas within ourselves
What is it?
INTIMACY
Ugly
Bad
Good
Mobile Devices
Video Games
Laptops
Tablets
Phones
Characteristics
Create Dependencies
Use anywhere
Use anytime
Firewalls
Anti-virus
Content-Filtering
WORLD WIDE WEB
WEB 3.0 - Semantic Intelligence
Streaming services
Search engines
WEB 2.0 - Digital Socialization
Video conferencing
Amazon Chime
Hangouts
Zoom
Multiplatform messsaging apps
Etc.
Skype
Signal
Telegram
Video Sharing Platforms
YouTube, Vimeo, etc.
Social Media
Types
etc.
Snapchat
TikTok
Web 1.0
THE WEB
Faith
True Human Sexuality
Modesty
Leisure and free time
Emotion coaching
Authority
Virtues
Sobriety
Fortitude
Order
Overcomes dffficulties
Acts with prudence
Knows truth of transformative capacity
Knows reality
Knows self
LIVED!
Touched and listened to
Expressed
Sung
Heard
Looked at
7 Sacraments
Anointing of the sick
Priesthood
Marriage
Confirmation
Eucharist
Confession
Baptism
Liturgical Year
Ordinary Time
Easter
Lent
Christmas
Advent
SUNDAY
Day of rest
Mass
Night
Examination of conscience
Holy Water
3 Hail Marys
During the day
Rosary
Prayer
Blessing of meals
Noon
Angelus or Regina Coeli
Morning
Prayers
Aspirations
Morning Offering
Gestures
United front
Apologize
Don't contradict each other
in front of children
Develop a Mission Statement
Create shared meaning
Overcome gridlock
Solve solvable problems
Let your spouse influence you
Turn towards each other instead of away
Nurture fondness and admiration
Enhance your love maps
Don't have to be perfect to be good parents