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by Jaidyn Gonsalves 10 months ago

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My Personal History

gifted, activism, social_justice, friendships, sports, independence During childhood, being labeled as gifted in fourth grade significantly influenced personal development, enhancing work ethic, cognitive, and organizational skills.

My Personal History

My Personal History

Media

"Bridge to Terabithia" - really resonated with me as a child - boosted my ability to empathize with others

People

Celebrities
Jim Carrey - the one actor/entertainer who genuinely brings me serotonin when I'm down
Joji & Hozier - my "calm in the storm"
Malala Yousafzai - awakened me to the real, psychological issues in our world (when I first read her story in second grade) - is who sparked my passion for social justice
Teachers
Ms. Wisner - inspired my love for running
Mr, Ryu - taught me a sense of community and to prioritize others in my life while still ensuring to take time to appreciate where I am in the moment
Best Friends
"The Squad" - and no, not four people, nine actually - loved me unconditionally - built my backbone - stood up for me regardless of how long it had been since we'd last spoken - are probably the most important people in my life aside from my Mom
Sadiq - somehow always gives incredible advice - modelled an idealistic academic and life mindset
Saanavi - offered a pure, loving friendship with no strings attached
Alyssa - listened and communicated thoroughly through it all
Jasper - deepened my adoration for music - inspired me to continue learning the guitar and drums - offered a judgement-free place to talk
Asmir - an escape - introduced me to the online world and a nicer way of life through his unbelievably-positive mindset and comedic sense of advisory
Afifah - remained by my side when it felt most had drifted away
Martim - acted as an older brother figure
Daniel - taught me the significance of patience - enlightened me to the fact that there truly is a soft side to everyone
Christian - awakened my adventurous spirit and creative side
Ahmed - was my rock during an incredibly-rough period in both of our lives
Isaiah - showed me kindness and support at times I was unaware I needed it - provided an irreplaceable brightness in my life - introduced me to one of my now-favourite musicians - became the only one I could confide everything in
Family
Third Cousins

Owen - displayed cognitive brilliance - gave me hope for the future of our world

Ellie - demonstrated endless creativity as well as the simplicity of childhood and solutions to problems that feel far too complicated to be solved by an older mind

Second Cousins/Godparents

Aunt Sarah - indoctrinated me into the world of the arts - mainly musicals - deepened my passion for singing and theatrics - provided me with sound advice no matter the issue shared

Uncle Ryan - educated me on the importance of sanity and logic over the societally-correct choice at certain times - taught me vital "street smarts"

Cousins

Victoria - allowed me to see the "silver lining" in any circumstance - supported me in all endeavours, without always knowing the purpose for said endeavours

Alyssa - remains a place of comfort - acted as an older sister figure for me as a child

Inner Circle

Grandad - bestowed wisdom - historical and philosophical - modelled the role of a decent man throughout my life - gave me numerous life experiences - specifically regarding mechanical and musical skills - encouraged (and encourages) me in everything I('ve) pursue(d)

Grandma - introduced me to art, gardening and baking - provided me with a safe space

Mom - taught me ethics, manners & countless life lessons while showing me both unconditional and "tough love"

Achievements

Achieving first place in a Peel Scrabble Tournament - demonstrated the ultimate potential of both my language and nerdy abilities

Hobbies/Pastimes

Writing - a chance to express myself openly, honestly and truly
Sports - an energy outlet and form of stress relief
Music - my primary source of inspiration and sanity

Significant Events/Major Milestones

Elementary School Encounters
Attending "Thornwood Public School" - met almost all of my best friends and favourite people
Being placed in Mr. Ryu's class in fourth grade - allowed me to meet several people who shaped my everyday life for years to come - provided me with opportunities to get involved in the community and build my own
Meeting Mr. Wilson - my elementary gym teacher - encouraged me to take up every and any sport - is the reason I'm so openly active today
Meeting "Teeter-Totter Boy" in Kindergarten - spending every day with him gave me insight on uncomplicated happiness during a crucial time of development for me - losing contact with him abruptly helped to normalize the idea that relationships ending is natural
Occupationally- Relevant Events
Being deemed gifted in fourth grade - bettered my work ethic - expanded my cognitive and organizational capabilities - got me involved with the "WE Charity" (although they're a controversial topic now
Clubs, Extracurriculars & Initiatives
Organizing a "Water Walk" (in relation to I.S.E.L.P..) - furthered my understanding of developing countries and the incredibly prevalent inequality within our world - leading to a deepened passion for social justice at 9 years old
Running the "Marafun" - taught me the importance of staying active - broadened my knowledge of opportunities available to me in order to maintain my physique
Joining "Girls' Group" (a social activism club at my elementary school) - opened my eyes further in terms of global issues (i.e. social, economic, etc.) - gave me a platform at school
Travel
Going to New York for the first time - widened my horizons regarding the cultures of the world - helped to explain where "Manifest Destiny" led the U.S.
Staying with my grandparents while my parents travelled to New York - awakened my sense of independence at a young age